Breaking The Nurturing Trap

Color: Blush Pink & Gold
A bead for the woman whose love language became self-abandonment.

It starts early.
You become the soft one.
The steady one.
The one they can cry to, lean on, collapse into.

You hold space before you even know what “holding space” means.
You offer comfort like it’s your currency.
You learn that your value is in what you give.

And you give.
And give.
And give…

Until one day, you find yourself sitting in the quiet,
bone-tired,
heart-wilted,
and wondering if anyone will notice that you’ve been running on empty.

This is what I call The Nurturing Trap.

It’s tender.
And beautiful.
And dangerous.

Because when your body learns that love means self-sacrifice,
you forget how to receive.

You flinch when someone tries to give to you.
You feel guilty resting.
You apologize for needing anything at all.

And somewhere deep in your womb.
that ancient memory keeper.
the story loops:

“Be useful or be invisible.”
“Love is earned, not received.”
“Their needs come first.”

But baby girl...
You can’t pour forever from a well that’s never refilled.
And no one is coming to refill it for you.

This waistbead is not about blame.
It’s about return.

To your softness.
To your sovereignty.
To the version of you who no longer mothers the world to feel safe in it.

Your Ritual:

Wear it when you feel the urge to over-function, over-serve, over-prove.

Wear it as a promise to the little girl in you who always tried to be “the good one.”

Use EFT and journaling ritual to remember that love doesn’t need to be earned through exhaustion.

And whisper to yourself:

“I no longer trade my body for belonging.
I no longer parent everyone so I can avoid tending to myself.
I was born to receive. Deeply. Freely. Now.”

Color Energies
🌸 Blush pink – for tender self-love & emotional rehydration
✨ Gold – for divine worth & unapologetic deservingness

Limited Edition – Part of The Motherline Collection

Includes:
 EFT Audio Ritual: “Coming Home to the Woman Behind the Giving”
Journaling Prompt: “What part of me still believes my worth is in my usefulness?”

This isn’t just a bead.
It’s a pause.
A mirror.
A moment to ask yourself, gently:
“What would change… if I gave to me the way I give to them?”

Get yours today!